At 12:27 AM, Anonymous
At 2:15 AM, Яαgιи Яαvєи
Hmm.. well, i am a man, but i wouldn't get married for a whole different reason :D
Women, at least most of them, are cunning and sneaky.. not to mention the fact that they're so into playing games. If i ever got married, it would be to someone who's far away as possible from the hint of being sneaky, from the idea of overrating stupid things and underrating critical matters. Besides, you can't generalize here because most Arab men get married just for the notion of 'I'm finally gonna have sex' and I guess its the same with women, that's why most Egyptian marriages arent happy ones.. cos five years into the marriage they realize they have two kids, they don't really know each other and they really dont give a fuck. Zaman kano beya3meloooha cos zaman everyone was kinda pure from the inside.. kan el zoog beyoqadder el zooga wel zooga beta7tarem zogha.. now ba2a with feminine rights and all that crap it all went down the drain.
Bottomline, I don't think it's anal sex that we fear losing. :D
At 6:50 AM, FreudianSlip
Is it weird that i'm the one who's usually avoiding commitment? I'm the one who's always afraid of missing out on my single life where there are no responsibilities and oh so many pseudo-forbidden pleasures (i.e. swearing, having guy friends and being able to travel alone/with friends). The way i see it is, why would i give all of this up to live with a chauvinistic and insecure male? why?
Sorry, i appreciate u still
but this post shoked me.. the topic is importamt i confess... but using some vocabulary wasn`t good from u... even if u copied this issue from anywhere...
we r muslims wala2... (i`m not going top say e7na shar2eyyeen w 3eeb w el klam el fady dah) but muslims... maybe alot of bad example showed up in the society .. but it`s not the base..
soeey again but if i didn`t care of u & respect u , i wouldn`t have said that
On the other hand, don't u think that many girls think the same way, huh?
Many of them, and let us speak explicitly, are more hypocrate, they are afraid of committment and in the same way they shout loudly "We seek ibn el 7alal".. Ironically, they don't give a d to the persons who came in their own will and full mental capacity to marry them.. They just remember their full-autonomy when they marry! and hence they deal so neagtively in all affairs with the other party with "ishm'inaat" and disgust. They accuse thier poor hubbies of "playing around" while they just give them the execuse.. They seek cooperative and understanding men while they throw cooperation and understanding from the window when there is an opportunity..
In short, they say "Why should I link myself with a stu guy".. Believe it or not.. They seek freedom as well, but not the sexual one as many pple could think.. they just seek "feeling free" and "unengaged" to whoever ..
Marriage has seemed to be a "fareeda" for girls and should be performed as a duty, not as a "sonnel el 7ayat"!..Despite we all need to stabilize our lives and marry, i don't think that all people should marry as well as should have been dead!
All problems are to be solved if, and only if, the two parties have learned to treat the other as partners, in live, in love, and in sex as well, if the entity they compose has a certain degree of autonomy, if friendship and mutual respect have became da rule!
This explains why old marriages extended for decades, with people married for 60 years maybe..
At 3:55 PM, hurricane_x
It's not about sex...
All girls can't understand one simple truth..
It's about us doing WHATEVER we want, WHENEVER we want, WHEREVER we want... and of course without the girl asking WHY !!!
These things may be silly and trivial, but we like them.
We may like watchin' a bloody movie on a night u may see it romantic,... I said "may".
We may just keep silent for 4 hours, and ofcourse don't ask why, cause the bloody answer is that we r thinking about "non of ur damn business things" !
Silly stuff,...huh,... but yet so precious :)
mmmm
It is true that men are afriad of commitment, but it is also true that women are also afraid, especially women who have become relatively more independent.
women lose a lot when they get married in addition to the huge responsibilities (including cooking, cleaning, pregnancy and all) theat become on their shoulders, so it is not something easy for them either.
but when a man or a woman decide to get married they should both accept the idea that beng married is something different.
we have to realise that we have become two and later more than two, so we sure have to give up on some things that we like or things that we were used to doing before marriage in order to succeed, else we will not be happy and our partner wont be happy either.
we have to let go of our selfishness if we want to make a family of our own and have a NEW life. we have to bear each other's bad characters because we ourselves are not perfect.
Good luck for all men and women like.
Omg.,,tesada2y ana kont batooh 3shan ageelek,...wallahy..asly kont barou7 el blog el tany..lol.I was misled..!! lol
a7'eeran waslat le blog el =gamda Walla..!! :D
eh ba2a Mola7'es en men are afraid of commitment?! :D