let me try to help u interpret this dream
a recurring dream is usually an obssession.
a death of a dear person often creates this kind of obssession, the idea of the loss is so big that human being seldom accept.
ur words of interpretation are so indicative, u need this idea as acompansation for that big loss.
I think from reading the blog that there are other elemnts as well.
At 3:28 PM, Anonymous
thx every1 for ur comments...
kelma:
u r right..that whole waiting things is awful...
god be with u in exams :)
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ossama:
no hard feelings from my side..i just never understood why u were having that attitude.
Q; what are the other elements?
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tooners:
do u mean my papa misses me too?
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jokerman:
u know, i used to dream that my papa came back from the dead and is living with us again..but he always came in the form of a ghost which scared me and i didn't want him in that form.
they were horrible nightmares....u r right...i long for him.
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Nanush:
we all dreamed that he's coming to get me...not any1 else..just me.
myself, if it took place with me, i would take it with a sport spirit.. i'll be dead.. i'll be dead..and there is a well known arab proverb : who is not dead by sword, will be dead anyway else..
this is if the dream was true..
if it is not, and this is what i wish , you will live in Sha' Allah even more than me at least :-)
شوفي يا ولاء انتي اصغر من بنتي واصغر من ابن فلان الفلاني
ودخلتي فينا شمال قوي
وده يمكن اللي خلانا نتكلم معاكي بحدة شوية
انتي يابنتي لازم تبطلي من غير زعل ومن غير نصيحة التوب ده يعني تبطلي تعملي
مثقفة اومهمة ده لوعايزة تخرجي حقيقي من مشاكل كتير معلش واضحة لكل ذي عينين
كمان بلاش انجليزي النبي عربي
على فكرة انا اتقن 7 لغات واعرف 10 غيرهم
انا فعلا زعلت لاني كنت قاسي عليك
سيبك من حكمة الدهر والاحساس بالاهمية ده
عايزة بجد تعرفي ايه الحاجات التانية
ياريت تبعتي لي ايميل وانا اكلمك بصراحة ده لوحاسة بان كلامي مفيد
لوحاسة انه مش مهم واخذتك العزة بالاثم
انسي ودي آخرمرة ادخل فيها عندك بس
بجد انا زعلت من قسوتي
وكلامي ليك دلوقت
منطلق من حتة تانية خالص
ممكن لو عايزة تعرفي اليميل تيجي لي
الاحلام مش دايما بتكون علامه
غيرب فعلا ان كل العائله تحلم نفس الحلم بس تفسيره ان ممكن تكونى حكيتيلهم عالحلم فحلموه بيه لانهم كانو بيفكروا فيه كتير
او انك كنتى قريبه من والدك كتير
انا والدى اتوفى من سنتين وبعد وفاته لحد الان دايما بتجيلى احلام انو مماتش وعايش عادى وانى كنت بحلم انو مات ولما اصحى اكتشف انو فعلا مات وانى كنت بحلم انو عايش
يعنى كانى بكتشف انو مات كل يوم الصبح
وفعلا الحلم ده اتكرر معايا كتير جدا لدرجة انو مبيمرش اسبوع الا لازم يتكرر الحلم
مش المفروض انك تعلقى حياتك على حلم او انك تكونى مستنيه الموت
لله حكمه فى ان الانسان ميعرفش معاد موته
اعمل لدنياك كانك تعيش ابدا واعمل لاخرتك كانك تموت غدا
At 9:30 AM, Anonymous
:D bossy i know u r not scared to die :D we enn el 7ewar kollo bass ennik mabet7ebbeesh el tashweeq :D ya ah ya la2 :D :D
bass u have to know that, dreams sometimes means something ELSE...
ya3ny i am sure ur dad is helping u...
when i think of it, i feel that something ur dad has done in his life, or wanted to do, is gonna happen to u....
like a job, a path, something like that....
think of it....
We all dream. Every night - as we dim the light of consciousness - we enter the realm of the dream. In this dream state our imagination runs free with little or no interference from our conscious mind. In the morning, when we awaken and return to consciousness, we may bring with us a recollection of the wanderings of our imagination - we remember the dream.
Your dream is nothing but a spiritual connection with the ethereal world of your father’s existence. As you described the sequence of the dream, you are longing to reconnect and also reinstate the idea of paternal bond. As you might know, there are many forms of life, ethereal bodies are all around you if you believe in that. You see, feel, taste, and touch what you believe not what exists.
What you saw is a good thing, which means you father is watching over you and the family. His is not far away as you might think, he is not was protecting you and your family.
BTW, sorry for being rude to you, I guess Ossama explains why. If you need any professional help, connect to Ossama and he will lead you to me.
Best of Luck
We are not that rude my dear, we just stand for whatever we believe.
I didn't mean to insult you or anything in my replies, I was commenting on specific issue.
Anyhow, I guess Ossama explained the whole thing in details.
I meant by professional help an active therapy, or an advice if needed. We all need therapy believe it or not.
And also if you need to talk to someone with professional background. That's why I told you to contact me or Ossama to get my email if you needed.
Now you can see that we are not unilateral as you might thought. We have so many sides that are worth exploring.
I'll help you whenever you need.
Again, best of luck
i didn't sau u were the last one to reply.
i said u were the last one i expected to reply.
actually i never thought u'd be reading anything on my blog nor ossama.
i beleive in that we-all-need-therapy theory...just tell me one reason i should seek help from u ...u r not the only shrink on earth, right?
btw, r u almost 50 too?
I guess you totally misunderstood my gesture towards you.
For sure I'm not the only Psychiatrsit on earth , and I never said you "should" seek help from me!! I said "if you need" and there is a big difference between the two phrases.
And I'm not almost 50, I'm 37 ys old, and quite frankly, I don't see the rationale behind your question about my age.
Nevertheless, believe me I don't need more patients than I already have, and obviously the distance between Cairo and NJ is far enough not to profit from you....and most of my patients have a 3months in advance appointement just to see them........ you're funny!
Anyhow, I said what I said because Ossama told me about your problem and I thought to give you a postive tap on the shoulder and some help.
God bless
do i think your father misses you? possibly OR he sees how much you miss him and wants you to know that everything is okay. i believe that loved ones help us if we're struggling w/ their death... maybe that's why he has come to each of your family members in their dreams. don't be afraid of it. and i personally dont think you need any kind of help. longing for a parent who has passed away is totally normal. you could mourn it for years.. i know i will when that times comes and i lose my mother - inshallah, it is no time soon.
طبيب نفسي
u r probably won't be reading this...anyway, i asked abt ur age coz ur Ossama's friend..and he is almost 50 so i thought maybe u r almost 50 too.
i honestly don't know what threw u in that defensive mood...
if replying here is a mistake then pleeeeeeeeeease don't do it.
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jokerman
yea..i guess i do.
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leilouta
sorry 4 the bad news.....
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tooners
u really lift up my spirits :)
thx 4 ur support
wut da worst could happen 4 somebody ????? may b died ..... no i guess it`s waitin his death knowin that it`s soon .... well someday u`ll die & me 2 .... sooner or later .... don`t try 2 know when coz u wont do somethin exept dying waitin .....
btw thnx 4 ur comment .... my exams ??? zeft ... rbna yostor d3watek ma3ana